Using a vibrator: That’s how you do it right.

If you have landed on this site, you are probably quite inexperienced in vibrators and their use. Maybe you still have no sextoy and have done it so far exclusively by hand.?!

Maybe you are also completely exhausted by the variety of equipment there is and don’t know at all where to get in..

That’s why I want to give you a hand and support you in your project. We are not a guidebook blog about sextoys and their use for nothing..

This won’t be a step-by-step guide to using a vibrator, because the ultimate guide doesn’t exist anyway.; everyone likes different things and everyone has to collect their own experiences. But if you are still virgin on this subject, I can promise you that in less than 5 minutes you will know everything you need to get started right away..

But before I go into the details and tell you what exactly you have to consider if you want to use a vibrator, we first take care of step no. 1: The purchase!

Everything starts with the purchase of the vibrator.

Yes, exactly. That’s the basis. This is where the biggest mistakes are made. Many beginners are mostly very young and have a very small budget. That’s why they often buy the first cheap toy from China at the erotic discounter, Amazon or Eis.de. In the best case sr is no longer fun for you after 2.3 applications or is broken. In the worst case you get a health damage because you do not tolerate the material (Jelly, for example, is often contained in cheap products) or your dildo does not tolerate or your dildo..

Jelly contains quite harmful plasticizers, so you should avoid them.. Ideally, you should use vibrators made of silicone, wood, glass or stainless steel, because they are harmless to health, easy to clean and not open-pored, so that no bacteria can settle in the material. If you have the opportunity, sniff at your object of desire. If it stinks of chemicals, put it back on the shelf right away..

If possible, buy a device that has a built-in rechargeable battery that can be easily recharged with the included USB cable. Much more environmentally friendly than using disposable batteries over and over again.

If you are completely overwhelmed and don’t know where to start, have a look here: Find your perfect Sextoy.

Because there are so many different models, so that you quickly lose the overview. Just to name a few:

  • Loading vibrator (yes, you don’t necessarily have to insert it…)
  • pair of vibrators
  • rabbit vibrator
  • Anal Vibrator
  • G Point Vibrator
  • Anal Vibrator
  • mini vibrator
  • finger vibrator
  • tongue vibrator
  • pulsator
  • Clitoris Vibrator
  • Butterfly Vibrator
  • Usw.

Since companies like Lelo and the Fun Factory or shops like Amorelie have conquered the market, there are many more colorful sextoys in various modern forms that cannot be identified as such at first glance..

A development I like very much.

There are a few things to keep in mind when buying a vibrator. In addition to the material, the size, the circumference, the shape, the volume, the surface structure and especially the operation are also important..

Believe me: Nothing is more annoying than a vibrator that does not lie properly in the hand and you krichst cramps if you want to operate the keys.

Or you accidentally hit the off button all the time because it’s so badly placed, or you can only switch in one direction through the intensities because there’s only one button for it..

Or or or…

Preparation is everything.

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A little preparation is also part of it..

There is not much you can do wrong when using the vibrator, but to get the most out of it and have a lot of fun you should ideally create a comfortable environment where you can relax undisturbed. Of course this is much easier if you live alone or are at home alone, i.e. if your parents or your flatmates are scampering around in the apartment..

Maybe you’ll find a night when you’re free of storms…

Many women like it when a small amount of lubricant is applied to the vibrator beforehand.. But be sure to use water-based lubricant with silicone vibrators, as oil- or silicone-based lubricants can damage the toy’s material.. Even if the latter sounds a little unbelievable… trust me!

If you have never used lubricant before, I recommend that you first try it somewhere on another non-intimate part of your body, such as your forearm, to make sure you tolerate it well..

It’s best to start slowly at the lowest vibration level and feel your way slowly to get used to the feeling, because it’s something completely different than “just” getting it with your hand…

Using the vibrator: Do I have to insert it??

No, you don’t have to. As mentioned above, in addition to the classic vibrators, there are also vibrators for laying on, or clitoral vibrators, which – as the name suggests – are stopped and directly stimulate the clitoris, not the vaginal canal. Many women find the external stimulation of the labia, clitoris and co. much more exciting than the internal stimulation..

With so-called Rabbit vibrators you can even have both at the same time. But for the beginning this is a bit much…

Now it’s time to try it out: Slowly push yourself forward, place the vibrator in different places or insert it at different depths and find the position where you like the stimulation best. Everyone has to gather their own individual experiences here..

If you want, you can now gradually increase the vibration intensity and/or speed if you want, or for more professional vibrators (such as the Fun Factory) you can choose a different vibration program/pattern..

Can the vibrator also be used in pairs??

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Of course vibrators can also be used in pairs..

Sure. What’s wrong with that??

If you have a partner, this is a wonderful way to spice up the love play and broaden your horizons.. Using a vibrator is also a great way for the man to rest a little. Maybe he has already come and can’t do it again. There is such a vibrator but perfect so that you get your money’s worth..

There are even women who enjoy sex with their partner, but only with the help of a vibrator come to orgasm..

So get him into this topic and let him have a sextoy; it will make him happy. Ideally, you will lead him a little at the beginning, because you already know your (new) vibrator and know exactly how to use it. You will also take away his insecurity if you show him exactly what he can do..

Because only very few men have already gained experience in handling vibrators and most of them are much too fast and too rough in the beginning.. Instead of just starting at the lowest level and putting it on first, they turn the thing up to the stop and push it into your tonsils, and they get faster and harder towards the end, instead of just keeping it that way when they realize you like it. So at least my experience, but no offense… ��

Apropo: Vibrators were not only developed for women. Men can also enjoy anal stimulation because the anus has a lot of nerve endings and is therefore particularly sensitive..

Anal stimulation can take your sex life to the next level.. But PLEASE don’t just shove the thing in the back of his head without asking, but discuss it beforehand.!

Make sure that you only insert your vibrator anal deep if it has a wide foot at the toy end, otherwise there is the danger that it slips in completely. And believe me: With this problem you do not want to go to the emergency room at night…

You can also try a special pair vibrator / partner vibrator. These C-shaped toys are introduced into the woman and worn during sex. They stimulate the vagina inside, the clitoris outside and even the man’s best piece at the same time..

The higher-priced models even come with a wireless Bluetooth remote control that lets you give complete control of the vibrator to your partner, making it twice as exciting..

Conclusion – Using a vibrator: There are no limits to your imagination.

vibrator benutzen: Patchy Paul

This is what one of my favorite vibrators looks like: The Patchy Paul of the Fun Factory.

As you can see, there are no fixed rules for using a vibrator.. Since there is an infinite number of models from an infinite number of manufacturers, it is up to you to choose 1.2 favorite models and try out different ones..

If you like clitoral stimulation and have a small budget, a model from the Satisfyer range could be interesting for you; e.g. the pressure wave vibrator Satisfyer 2 or Satisfyer Pro 2. If you have a larger budget and want perfect quality, the Womanizer or the Lelo Sona might be something for you….

A classic and absolute all-rounder is Patchy Paul from Fun Factory, which is now in its fifth generation. It is very versatile and will give you a lot of fun in the long run. It is even slightly bent upwards so that you can perfectly stimulate your G-spot, which sits in the vagina at the top a few centimetres after the entrance..

Whatever you like… you’ll have to figure it out for yourself.. Slow and deep in and out, fast and superficial bumping, circular movements, hanging up, vaginal, anal, alone or in pairs, … like so many things it is simply a matter of taste.

As mentioned, the best thing to do is click your way through our vibrator tests and take a look at the perfect sextoy. Then I’m sure you’ll find the right one for you..

Further article recommendations to this topic: Which vibrators are there??

Oh and please: Before you take your new favorite vibrator with you into the shower or the bathtub, make sure that it is waterproof! Because many vibrators, especially the cheaper ones and those that consist of several parts or have separate battery compartments, are often unfortunately not.

Last but not least, I would like to mention that regular care and intensive cleaning after each use is important and will protect you from unpleasant infections. You should allow your vibrator to dry completely after use before storing it safely and securely; ideally in a small box or bag..

Now that you are well informed, it is time to use your own experience with the vibrator and wish you lots of fun and success. Your next bombastic orgasm is waiting around the corner..

Do you have any questions, just put them in the comments with it!

Alex Lesley
Alex Lesley is a 35-year-old sex toys enthusiast. Master of best male sex toys. He understands all the details about Fleshlight, Tenga, Penis Pumps etc.
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