Strapon: What is it and how do you use it correctly?

You’ve often heard the term “strapon” or “strap-on dildo” while surfing the internet or talking to friends, but you couldn’t do anything with it.?

You are looking for a way to make your sex life more varied (e.g. with role plays) and to give your partner a completely different kind of satisfaction.?

You always wanted to know what it’s like to have a penis.?

With a Strapon one speaks of a dildo to the strap around the hip. This is used in most cases by women, in order to spoil like-minded women or also experimentjoyful men (anal). Also I had already several times the pleasure to be taken by my girlfriend. Many call it also quite simply as penis substitute.

This sex practice is called pegging, by the way..

However, there are also those that were explicitly produced for men, as they are hollow inside, for example. These are useful if the man has erection problems or premature ejaculation to contend with..

A strap-on dildo, like the here shown & inside hollow Fetish Fantasy Elite 8 is usually attached to a kind of adjustable belt made of latex or leather (so-called harness), so that it sits firmly and does not slip during love play..

You can get the Fetish Fantasy Elite for example at Amazon for— € // fetish Fantasy Elite 8 Hollow Strap-On Pink von 5 Sternen with 4 voices

They are available in numerous colours and shapes and in many different designs and materials..

Some of these dildos have an opening in the appropriate place, so that the wearer can be stimulated during the act. Or they have a (vibrating) inner dildo, which gives the woman great pleasure without much effort..

Why should you try pegging??

What ist ein Strapon: Deadpool

Even Deadpool thinks it’s cool

Pegging is ideal for taking on a different angle of view, for touching role-playing games and changing positions..

It has been shown that the use of such a sextoy is now one of the secret fantasies of many men, which I find very positive. Because such toys (such as masturbators) are by far not as socially acceptable as vibrators for women..

It can be very erotic for men (this also applies to me) to feel at the mercy of their partner and to exchange the dominance for the submissiveness, i.e. to give the partner the upper hand. Then there is the direct simulation of the prostate, which can be very exciting and represents a completely different kind of stimulation..

And for women it can be very horny to take control and experience an intense feeling of power..

And if that’s not enough, there are now countless strap-on dildos that additionally stimulate the wearer’s clitoris and vagina. So the active part also benefits physically from this..

If you’re still not convinced: Deadpool thinks it’s great too! ��

How do I use a strap-on and what preparations do I have to make??

Most important: Lubricating gel.

Without nothing goes at all. If the strap-on dildo should be introduced anal best one on silicone or oil basis, because this is clearly more gleitfreudiger and also longer lasts. For the beginning is in addition possibly still another Anal Relaxspray meaningful, since the introduction is facilitated thereby. But please use this only very sparingly, so that your body can give you still enough feedback and not everything is deaf.

If your pelvic floor muscles are strong enough, I can recommend the Share (or Sharevibe) from the Fun Factory, as it doesn’t need straps and therefore allows a lot of intimacy..

For loosening up I would drink (according to taste) a glass of sparkling wine, dim the light and then start with foreplay. Possibly also a little pre-stretching has to be done. This is especially important if the man is the passive part. Depending on the dildo 1, 2 fingers or even a small anal plug are enough..

In the ideal case the man introduces himself to the standing strap-on in advance in order to get used to him..

How I prepared myself the first time you read in my interview with the Joyclub. Here you learn how exhausting it can be for a woman when she is not used to it..

The procedure for insertion should be very careful.. Since the woman does not get any direct feedback, she may not notice directly if the man is in pain. And this should be avoided in any case, because otherwise small cracks can appear, which have negative consequences..

So, take your time, don’t rush into anything and please talk to each other.. If you don’t like something, say it instead of just putting up with it, because otherwise it’s no fun and it’s not only the first time, but also the last time..

Which positions are suitable??

Strapon: Fetish Fantasy Elite Vibro

Strapon: Fetish Fantasy Elite Vibro

Ideally, for the beginning you should choose a position in which the man can relax.. The rider position is therefore rather unsuitable..

The position should also be easy for the woman to manage. Everyone has to find their own way, but personally I like Doggy very much. And the missionary position, where I put a thick pillow under my buttocks.

doggyFor the active part, this position is usually ideal for practicing coordinated kicking, and the man can usually relax quite well in this position. The disadvantage is that this position costs most men a great deal of effort to overcome (opposite stretching of the buttocks)..

If your strapon is bent upwards, you should turn it over in this position so that it can stimulate the prostate precisely..

missionaryThe biggest advantage here is that you can look directly into your eyes and the active part notices if the passive part doesn’t like it or even hurts. In addition, there is a lot of intimacy here. The insertion is made easier if the lying man pushes a pillow under his bottom or puts his legs on the shoulders of the woman. You can also – if he wishes – stimulate his penis here additionally..

In this case you can leave the (curved) strapon as it is..

spoonsAlso very suitable for the beginning, especially if it should be rather quiet, but the freedom of movement of the woman is quite limited, so that she cannot penetrate very deeply, which is ideal for the beginning..

Where can I buy a strapon and what do I have to pay attention to?

If you want to buy a toy, you should inform yourself sufficiently in advance, e.g. with us. When deciding on a particular model, it is not only the individual taste that counts; other factors such as aesthetics, functionality, ergonomics and price also play a role..

In addition, it is desirable that the material of the sextoy is harmless to health. I recommend silicone in the vast majority of cases because I have had very good experiences with it..

You can buy the Strapon either directly in erotic shops on the spot or of course over the Internet. The advantage in an erotic specialist shop is that you can take different strapping dildos in your hand and consider which one corresponds to your individual needs..

Especially if the very first model is purchased, you can get advice when buying in the erotic shop. It is best to take your partner with you to choose something together..

If you like it more anonymous, the purchase via Internet is also unproblematic. There are not only detailed product descriptions as on this side here, but also detailed information about possible lacks or health-endangering contents materials; in addition come still multiple customer evaluations.

Have a look at our comparison tables: strap-on dildo comparison.

My tip: Right from the start buy something decent and no 10 € cheap scrap, because otherwise you buy in 1, 2 months again something new…

Often the already mentioned Sharevibe of the Fun Factory is bought..

For this we have already created a detailed test report: Vibrator Test: Sharevibe of Fun Factory

esteem: Don’t forget the lubricant when ordering!

There are currently many different types of strap-on dildos on the market, just to name a few:

  • With vibration function. (for even more stimulation of the passive part)
  • double dildo for the simultaneous satisfaction of the wearer.
  • Strap-on, in which the dildo can be exchanged for various other sex toys, such as vibrators, plug’s, etc. (Harness necessary).
  • Hollow Strap-on, so that the wearer can insert his penis, e.g. to create an “artificial penis enlargement.
  • With alternative mounts, so that the harness can be attached to the head, for example..

What else do I need to know about Strap on??

What ist ein Strapon

More detailed information about the strap-on dildos available on the market can be found here: Which strapon species are there??

We also answer the following questions in the Strapon FAQ and in the detailed test reports:

  • How exactly do I use it?
  • What should such a toy cost at the most?
  • I have more fun in bed with a strap-on dildo?
  • I’m homosexual because I like strap-on dildos.?
  • Can a strapon help me with erection problems??
  • Are strap-on dildos suitable for role-playing??
  • What is to be thought of strapless strapon? (e.g. Fun Factory Share)

On lovehoney.de there is a nice info page about this topic. Here you can learn more about how it works and get further tips..

There is also a clearly arranged table for straps and matching O-rings..

Strapon – Our conclusion.

If you want to try it out and maybe have fun with role-playing games, you’ve come to the right place.!

To all men: Courage and no worries: Just because you like variety and anal (prostate) penetration, you are not perverted, bi or homosexual! And if you do: Who cares?

Both the anal area and the prostate are very sensitive and susceptible to stimulation from the outside. If you approach it correctly, it can be very beautiful..

And please start slowly; it all takes time. For the beginning we advise you to choose a smaller model with a smooth surface and a natural shape (e.g. straight).!

It is also important that you talk to your partner about your wishes! True to the motto:

There’s nothing you can do wrong with sex except not talking about it.!

What do you think about it? What experiences have you already gained with Strapons? Just write in the comment field!

Alex Lesley
Alex Lesley is a 35-year-old sex toys enthusiast. Master of best male sex toys. He understands all the details about Fleshlight, Tenga, Penis Pumps etc.
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