Strapless Strapon: The problem with the strapless Feeldoes.

Strapless Strapons, so-called Feeldoes conquer the sextoy market at the latest with the introduction of the Fun Factory Share.

Since our society is becoming more and more open about the use of sextoys and the topic of pegging (sex with the strap-on dildo) is becoming more and more popular, the demand for strapon dildos is of course growing more and more. Last but not least, we owe the big (women’s) magazines, such as Cosmopolitan, which informed its readers in detail with a large-scale interview at the end of last year.

What types of strapon are there??

Short explanation: So we distinguish between Strapons that are used together with a harness (Strap on Harness) and the Strapless Strapons (completely without harness), which are usually held by the pelvic floor muscles of the woman..

A well-known representative of the second category is the already mentioned Share of the Fun Factory and its successor, the Sharevibe. The latter was equipped with a vibration bullet and got a facelift as well as some small improvements that give it more stability and stability and make it even more suitable for beginners..

Especially the unstable connector of the two ends (active & passive) was the main problem of the Share in my opinion..

strapless Strapon - Fun Factory Sharevibe

The Sharevibe is the successor of the Fun Factory Share and a very popular Strapless Strapon..

There is also an XS and an XL version of the share, so there is a little more flexibility and variety here and you can vary according to your mood..

What are the advantages and disadvantages of both variants??

The advantages of Feeldoes are obvious:

  • They offer more intimacy and closeness.
  • They are less costly to use. Hardly any preparation is required.
  • There are no annoying straps whatsoever.
  • They are often cheaper to purchase.
  • Since they are introduced at the active part, they also stimulate it (sometimes with additional vibration like Sharevibe).

But there are also a number of disadvantages that I would like to mention in this article.

With the “normal” Strapon variant there are basically 2 different model types

  • Finished complete sets, consisting of Strapon Dildo and integrated harness.
  • Separate Harness (dishes), e.g. Joque of Spareparts and use of a suitable Dildos.
strapless Strapon - Strapon Komplettset

This is variant 1: A finished Strapon complete set

I clearly prefer the second and usually much more expensive variant.. For the very simple reason that FIrmen harnesses such as Spareparts are super high quality and comfortable to wear and provide unbeatable support. You can also simply use your existing favorite dildos according to your mood..

Especially a firm hold gives you the possibility to let it go really hard and wild without you having to adjust the strapon again and again or it even slips out completely, which can be extremely annoying in the long run..

So you are not bound to one and the same shape or size, as would be the case with the first variant, but can always use exactly the one that suits you best..

However, the active part in strapon sex with the harness variant usually has very little of this pleasure, since no stimulation of its own takes place., but only in his/her head. You should have fun as a carrier to get it to your partner, otherwise you will be bored faster than you like..

strapless Strapon - Fun Factory Strap & Bound

Variation 2: This is a classic and size adjustable harness: In this case the Strap & Bound

In fact, I have made the experience that with this variant you don’t feel as connected to your partner as with the use of a strapless strapon, because it is more integrated into the love play and comes closer to “real” sex with a real penis. So at least my impression so far.

This whole topic has its origin in the so-called Feeldoe, which was developed by or for the company Tantus at the beginning of 2000.. That’s like the Alpha-Strapless Strapon. The primary rock.

strapless Strapon - Feeldoe Urgestein

The first Feeldoe developed for Tantus looked like this.

In the meantime, of course, many manufacturers have followed suit and developed their very own Feeldoes, to name just a few: Fun Factory, Vixen, Doc Johnson and Swan.

Now let’s get as promised to the disadvantages that such a Strapless Strapon can bring, and also to the reasons, why this kind of Toy can be well suitable for the entrance into the Pegging topic, but less for “advanced” ones, with which it goes harder to the thing or even for (lesbian) couples, who would like to integrate regularly something like this into their love play..

The legs must be closed..

In the past, I have often noticed that my partner – the wearer of the toy – had to keep her legs closed during love play., Of course, it also depends very much on the anatomy and the pelvic floor muscles of the wearer, but also on the surface of the toy. But it makes sure that not every position works well, especially the missionary position suffers massively from it..

Often my girlfriend then had to hold the strapon with one hand, which clouds the fun a little bit..

This movement, which is unusual for women, is already difficult with strapons with crockery; with feeldoes it is therefore even more difficult..

Strapless Strapons hang low.

Without an appropriate harness these Strapon Dildos always hang a good bit lower than with. They hang down thus quasi like a half-sleep penis. This circumstance is of course not a good condition for a fun and satisfying love play..

Gravity is a Bitch.

This disturbs both in the missionary position, in which the dildo then quickly “sits down” on the bed, and in the missionary position, which lives from the hardness and stiffness of the limb, as it were, or in the case of the strapon, from the Strapons..

With some of these toys it is quite possible to give some more stability by the additional employment of a harness (ideally with 2 belts the left and right at the hip past, in order not to affect the hold of the Toys negatively) or also a Pantie with opening. But completely honestly… then you can use also directly a completely normal Strapon..

The carrier side is unpleasant for many women.

This point also strongly depends on the anatomy of the wearer, but there are some (more narrowly built) women who report that wearing the strapless strapon becomes uncomfortable in the long run.. Responsible for this is simply the carrier side, which is often too long, too thick, too big, too uncomfortable..

I still remember one of my ex-girlfriends who needed a lot of lubricant and patience in order to be able to introduce the Sharevibe in the first place. And once it was in, it slipped out again and again..

Unfortunately, it is often the case that the toys press against the cervix, the pubic bone, the urethra or even from the inside against the vagina.. If you also switch on the vibration function, it usually doesn’t make things any better..

If I may speak for all men with not quite so much anal experience: Our sphincters are usually still quite narrow and stubborn, which means that the wearer of the strapon must exert relatively much pressure to successfully insert it. For this to work well, an appropriate hold and counter pressure is necessary, which is unfortunately not so given with the models mentioned. So the thing must be held with one hand, which reduces the aspect of closeness and intimacy again somewhat..

Of course, this also distracts and prevents the partners from enjoying sex properly..

Conclusion Strapless Strapon – For beginners yes, for advanced rather not.

What I’m saying is: If you want to try yourself and set a first foot in the world of pegging and strap-on dildos, the purchase of a Feeldoe such as Sharevibe is quite useful..strapless Strapon - Billigtoy-Schrott

When I talk about cheap toys, I mean something like that. You can see it at first glance..But if you have already gained experience or you are 100% sure from the start that you like it and want to change roles regularly, I advise you to Purchase of a high quality crockery and one or two matching high quality dildos.

And for heaven’s sake: Save yourself the purchase of these 0815-20€-China-Strapon productions, which are available at Amazon or other Sextoy-Online-Discounters, because you will definitely have no fun with it in the long run and spoil very quickly a sex practice, which you might otherwise have liked a lot.

I don’t want to rage against double dildos with this, only their purchase should be well considered, because with it one takes oneself also some individuality and free choice of position and dildoform, respectively size..

Now I would be interested in your opinion: Have you already gained experience with Feeldoes or Strapless Strapons??

Write it down in my comments.!

Alex Lesley
Alex Lesley is a 35-year-old sex toys enthusiast. Master of best male sex toys. He understands all the details about Fleshlight, Tenga, Penis Pumps etc.
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